@thedecodeher- “?” “Hello??”
After she hasn’t replied. It tells her you’ve been watching the screen.
- “Why are you being so dry?”
It puts her on trial for a short reply.
- “I see you watching my stories.”
It makes her feel caught and shows you’re tracking her.
- Three or more texts in a row with no answer
Two is the limit. After that, the next move is hers. The one exception is a light goodbye a week later.
- “Wow, 7 hours. Glad I’m a priority.”
Sarcasm about reply times makes you look like you’re keeping score.
- “So what are you up to this weekend?”
When you mean “want to go out?”. Say what you mean.
- “Just let me know when you’re free!”
As your invite, it hands her the whole job of planning, and the plan usually dies.
- “Oh, so NOW you text me?”
It might feel good to type. It kills the conversation you wanted.
- “Forget what I said.”
Don’t take back something honest because the reply was slow.
- A long paragraph listing everything she did that confused you
It reads like a court case, and she’ll defend instead of answer.
- Anything meant to make her jealous
It may get a reaction. It never builds trust.
- Going silent to punish her
Not answering on purpose to make her worry is a game. Stepping back because she isn’t putting in effort is different. Know which one you’re doing.
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